Happen To Notice: What Do I Have to Lose?


June 18, 2026 Happen To Notice with Vanessa Micale Hello Reader, Near midnight, I wrote: What do I have to lose by being myself and asking for what I need to be well? I’ve already lost so much. In this life, we know loss is coming, but it still catches us off guard. I wrote this by hand in my journal after practicing radical honesty in an external request for accommodation. Now that I know more about my needs, it is less of an option to ignore them. I am more able to discern what I need and...